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The 30-second answer
Do not turn this into a fight over a full meal. First find out what “not hungry” means: no time, nerves, nausea, a large late lunch, limited food choices, or a genuine loss of appetite. Move the larger food earlier and test one small, familiar, easy-to-digest option closer to practice.
What to do next
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Ask whether the problem is appetite, time, food availability, dislike of the options, or symptoms after eating.
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Try one small familiar option before an ordinary practice, then adjust timing based on the athlete’s tolerance.
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Tell the family when pain, vomiting, diarrhea, strong anxiety, or persistent appetite loss is part of the pattern.
Small options that may be easier to tolerate
- Applesauce, banana, pretzels, crackers, dry cereal, toast, or a small bagel with jam.
- A familiar granola bar or fruit snack when that is already part of the athlete’s routine.
- Choose one option rather than presenting a large buffet immediately before practice.
What a coach can say
“You do not need to force down a full meal. Let’s find one small thing you tolerate and test the timing on a normal day. If eating regularly causes pain, vomiting, diarrhea, or strong anxiety, tell your parent or guardian so we can get the right help.”
What to avoid
- Do not shame, threaten, or publicly monitor the athlete’s eating.
- Do not assume every appetite problem is picky eating.
- Do not prescribe a supplement to replace food.
When general guidance stops
Ongoing nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, abdominal pain, fear of eating, rapid weight change, persistent fatigue, or a pattern of restriction needs individual medical and nutrition evaluation rather than another general snack suggestion.
Use the matching resource
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Open the week, review the parent message, send it through your school channel, give the two-minute team talk, and share the matching resource. Families join privately with your program code; Aspire never messages families for you.
Individualized assessment, diagnosis, and 1:1 treatment are separate from Program Access.
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